Advice on the Tricky Business of Going From a Patient to a Date

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If you want to up the ante a little, make yourself a little available for him to run into. I was always hesitant in bringing up issues, or suggesting things that I knew would be difficult for Surgeon to do. Realistically, doctors have bad days like, really bad days more often than we like to think about. I was willing to give it that time.

I will definitely take your advice and talk with him about my concerns I truely love him and want us to see eye to eye about certain issues since we are working towards being in this for the long run. There are plenty of good things that could be said about dating professionals of medicine.

Tips For Dating A Rich Female Doctor

Dating is pretty daunting. Dating someone in a surgical residency program or really, ANY residency is something of a myth. Surgeon and I met during his 2nd year of residency. I seriously had no idea what I was getting into back then. Tip 1: Be Flexible — Dates can and SHOULD happen anywhere. After my first formal date with Surgeon, it got not-so-formal. More dinner dates happened at the hospital than anywhere else. In the end, your where-to-have-a-date question should be: where can I spend the most time with this person? And then, DO IT, no matter how weird it seems. Tip 3: Be Ready to Put in MORE Time — They say all is fair and equal in true love. I mean, yes, it is. By the first month, I knew a dinner date meant me cooking, packing and cleaning up afterwards only to spend 30 minutes eating with Surgeon. I was willing to give it that time. Did that mean Surgeon NEVER cooked for me or NEVER did dishes? Tip 4: Be the NON-Work Person — I found out early on that I LOVED listening to Surgeon talk about his work. So we learned to talk about OTHER things. Do I still get stories and reports about the OR? Be flexible, but also let your super awesome doctor know when you want something! I was always hesitant in bringing up issues, or suggesting things that I knew would be difficult for Surgeon to do. They want to be with you. I certainly was when I found myself on a hike with my favorite person on a post-call day… Tip 6: Befriend Co-residents — and spend time with them, even if it means being the only non-doctor in the room. Some of my best allies in getting Surgeon to be somewhere on time were his co-residents. Pay them back in homemade cookies. They are your best friends forever. It is NEVER by choice. There have been many disappointing moments in our almost 4 years together directly tied to Surgeon being caught up in some dilemma at the hospital. No-shows with delayed responses as to WHY the no-show. Once, he had to leave me mid-ordering a meal during my birthday dinner. But it sucked for BOTH of us, not just my poor little self sitting alone at a table. Tip 9: Learn How to PROUDLY make Excuses for their Absence — All my friends knew I had been dating, but no one believed me until I finally posted up our wedding photos on FB. Even then, there were people asking me if I hired someone to mess with them, heh. Truth is, residency means NO TIME. Hell, I still go places without Surgeon! He really is sorry to miss this! I cannot compare anything I do to what he does and really, no one should ever compare in ANY relationship, resident or otherwise , but I can listen. Residency is tough, but love is stronger. If you have anything to add to the list, let me know below! I have been dating a general surgery resident for four months and this really helps. Liked by I am currently dating a surgeon resident and have found this article to be extremely helpful. I would really like to know how you and your husband were able to work through the stress and emotional burdens. Please send me an email and look forward to hearing from you. Liked by Really appreciate you posting this. Thank you for posting. Liked by I am currently dating a resident as well. We live an hour and half away and it wasnt as easy to see him. With him being at hospital, he teaches as well so time is really very challenging. But I do my best to understand everything. He text few times a day and call once a day that makes me happy. I just need more understanding to keep up with all these challenge. Surgeon used to live 45 mins away, an hour if traffic was bad… it was really hard, but we mitually were okay with spending the weekend at each others place. That made dinners, movies, and just hanging out a lot easier. What would you like more of, though? Is it quality time, or something else? I think it helps pinpointing what you need we ALL need things and then relaying it to your partner. Thank you for reading and stopping by!

First of all — she has heard them all. My soon to be fiance is a doctor, he'll be ending his internship in 2014 and maybe will do his postgraduate abroad. My husband is a 3rd year ENT resident, and we started dating right before he started med school. Quote: I will like to have few tips of people who have date one. He can't just put his shoes on and go. In fact, when I first met him, I had no idea he was even a full fledged doctor.